When you're a child you often have issues brought on by the family in which you were raised. You vow that when you grow up you will never bring a child into this world, to experience as you did.
You grow up and life happens ... Did you create a better situation or are you repeating patterns based on DNA family codes?
Did you ever grow up at all and find yourself?
We live in a holographic simulation in which everything you experience as a child, an adult, and as a senior is determined by your DNA - genetic codes. codes. Well you can do is the best you can do with you given programming.