In the game of life, most people have unresolved issues with someone from their past, something left unsaid and undone. It could be a family member, a friend, a former neighbor, someone whose behavior towards them has left a marker on their soul. These unresolved issues can damage their lives, whether they recognize them or not.
Therapy can help one relive the experience bringing it into today's consciousness for review, but another good way to let go might be to meet the person involved, if they are still alive and can be found. As everything goes to fear and other negative emotions, if one is ready, this can be a turning point in life. It can create something positive or help let go of someone negative as you do not want your soul to carry excess baggage being a pawn on the game board trapped in negative emotions (red).
As we have discussed, most people are dysfunctional in one way or another, thus experience is about abuse and healing.
Most people who have hurt you have their own set of issues and emotional problems that you may not have recognized. To let go is to understand why they behaved as they did and your needs at the time you were abused.
A reunion with the person is more about understanding than any other emotion. It is not to rekindle lost, or never existing, affections. It is to teach you about the people who played karmic roles in your life and how their presence has made you the person you are today.
We live in a time when many of us let go of the destructive people in our lives - friends and family. But if there is someone who you need to see again, to make a clean break, go for it.
a tree, a man, a woman,
and an apple that contained all knowledge.
You do remember where the ruby red slippers take you ....
