April 2021

It's spring - and Covid or no Covid most people want romance - to feel loved, turned on, wanted, appreciated, cared for, and understood. We meet someone -> create a scenario in our minds based on our emotional needs about what we would like from that person then build a life around it. Whoops... bad idea even if caught up in the chemistry of it all. Slow down. Discover the facts of life about this relationship in real time. I have read both men and women who look upon every partner as a lifetime commitment - some call it "The One". Bad idea. Too needy. Too much stress. Drama. Healing.