My, my ... they should have consulted me before undertaking their nuptials. I've been down this road with so many clients over the past 40 years of readings I often take the role of counselor or lawyer. I would've advised them not to marry, but to try living together for a while.

I don't watch reality TV, but there was so much press about this couple that I watched the news clips. If they had come to me for reading, I would have told them it wouldn't last. They were caught up in the moment, and as seniors I understand that as long as you are healthy, it's wonderful to share your life with someone of like mind.

Their energies seemed staged for emotional value by the audience. There was something wrong with him that turned me off immediately. She came across as if she won the top prize in a contest - then decided she didn't want it after all - it was just about winning.

Long distance relations only work long term if one of the people is willing to change the nature of their relationships with family, friends, home, and lifestyle - which rarely happens or is successful.

In the romanticism of meeting someone who doesn't live within a reasonable drive - wherein all meetings have to be scheduled - it's fun and sexual but in the moment.

The seniors I know would never jump into a marriage. Some have remained married for decades telling me that if their spouse passed, they would never remarry, but perhaps seek out a meaningful relationship.

The truth is, no one wants to be a caretaker to anyone anymore. Few people want to deal with somebody else's daily issues especially if they've worked out their own in therapy.

I know people watch reality shows as an emotional catharsis of their own issues but I'm glad I'm not into that.

As your friend and psychic, I suggest you take a long hard look at anyone coming into your life this spring who might be a romantic interest.

Spring flings can be lots of fun, but knowing your partner's issues and whether or not you have the time and energy for something more is very important.

You know reality is built on emotions - positive and negative - issues and healing. Know who you are and what works for you.

I know this sounds like a cliche, but you have to live your truth even if it's alone.

If you're young then realize that you and your partner are going to change, hopefully together, and if you're older separate homes in close proximity usually is the best way to go.

Most of all, remember the rules ... Never ever let anyone move in unless they can afford to leave - or you're screwed in more ways than one.