May 26, 2026

It's Spring. You want to meet "The One." ... Wait. My clients don't ask me that question anymore.

Something has shifted in the way people view love, commitment, and connection today. The fantasy of finding one perfect person to complete their forever changing lives has faded for many. The speed at which reality keeps changing - has reshaped expectations.

People are no longer searching for fairy tales in the same way. They value friendship, stability, authenticity, emotional safety, to name of few.

Of course passion is one of the most important ingredients in a long lasting relationship - but as we've all become therapists in our own way - looking at the practical side of things is the way to go.

In a world driven by endless swiping, instant gratification, curated identities, and emotional burnout, many have become more cautious about attachment. Some no longer believe in permanence. Others value companionship over labels. Some simply want honesty over illusion.

Today you meet whomever you're programmed to meet - someone who aligns with the flow of your experiences and emotions.

If you're looking for love online - make sure you Zoom or FaceTime with the other person - and check them out on Google before you meet.

Remember that long distance relationships generally don't work or are too expensive and time consuming. They're great for an adventure or a hook up if that's your thing - but rarely for the long term.